Security Blanket

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present

help in trouble. Psalm 46:1

Much like the Charlie Brown character, Linus, I have always carried around a security blanket. Mine the more proverbial, it has followed me through some of life’s most awkward encounters. If there was anything in my life that could save me from myself, it has been my self- depreciating sense of humor. I learned from an early age that no one can make fun of you of you beat them to the punch. And, as much as I had stacked against me- five foot nothing and overweight- I have to say my tactical approach has worked. But like all things that counter the Word of God, it has come with a price. You know that old saying we learn in childhood, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me”? Yeah, well, I’d like to meet the cotton-headed ninny muggings that came up with that one. One of the most damaging things you can do to a person, especially a woman, is cause them to question their value. A woman is particularly more vulnerable because God gave us the enormous duty to carry around a memory that does not easily forget. And when you come from a family that constantly berates one another, you either lose yourself or learn to cope. As stated, I learned to make fun of myself before anyone else had the chance.

But recently, God has been showing me that the way I feel about myself is not the way He sees me. As a matter of fact, it’s the opposite of how He feels about me. On the day of my wedding, I was not the bliss-filled bride you see in every movie or television show, anxiously, cautiously taking in every detail as if to store it in some special memory box that would last forever. I hardly remember most of the day’s goings on; not because of uncertainty or unhappiness. All I remember wanting is to get that day over with so I could begin the rest of my life with the man I had waited for 23 years. Nothing that happened before would compare in the grand scheme of life to the years I would spend in great adventure with the one I love. I am convinced that is how God sees us! He’s not so concerned with the things leading up to our relationship as He is with how we spend the rest of our lives. That was a great epiphany for me because I spent a long time wondering just exactly what God sees in me. I once wrote that I am my own worst critic; nothing anyone could say to me would be as hurtful as the things I tell myself. But God wants me to view myself from His eyes. He wants me to know that I am loved and safe and beautiful. He wants me to walk in grace and dignity, despite my past. God cares how I feel about myself because He cares for me!

Upon this great revelation, I have tried viewing myself in a different way. I know that I am not perfect, but God has a way of turning ashes into beauty. Though we can have a relationship with God without a sense of self-worth (many religious cults are built on this idea), I know we can not walk in fullness until we allow God to encompass every area of our lives, even our self-esteem. I’ll end with this- a church we were visiting had a great quote, “ We need to worry less about self-esteem and focus more on God-esteem.”

Love to you all!

Facing Trials Candidly

James 1:2-4

² Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, ³ because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. ⁴ Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

There is a quaint little wooden bridge as you come up the road to our family camp house. It’s about 25 feet long, covering a simple winding trail of water. It would be a really great spot to take a camera and snap some amazing pictures. The only problem is whenever we cross it, I have to close my eyes. I can’t look at the beautiful things that surround it; I can only focus on the boards that are patched with asphalt and the feeling of impending doom that fill my stomach. That’s probably the most accurate picture I can give you of what’s been going on in my life the past few months.

Where do I begin? I feel like I am writing a friend that I haven’t spoken to in ten years. Candidly, I have had some major life events going on, and I have been so drained emotionally I have not had the energy to write. But I have to say in the midst of this valley time, I have had a constant God to hold my hand and gently guide me back to some semblance of sanity.  The most important lessons we learn in life often come from the most inconvenient test. Most of the time I can find solace in writing through my issues. But this time, I needed a different approach to deal with some unresolved grief. Praise God that we are more than conquerors in Christ. 

While I was on sabbatical, I was reminded that life, this life on earth, is fleeting, and that I spend entirely too much time holding on to things I need to let go. I learned that within my family, time and distance do not distort the love we have for one another. I learned first hand that money really changes people, and it’s rarely for the better.  Mostly, I learned that God really loves me. I was brought up thinking that we have to prove ourselves to God in order to stay in His good graces. I could never reconcile my sinful nature with the infinite perfection of God . But a preacher on television told me that while we cannot have faith without works, God loves us and quickly forgives our sin. He reminded me that I don’t have to beat myself up when I mess up; all I have to do is ask once, with a contrite heart, for forgiveness- then He throws my sin as far as the east is from the west. Ask once, it’s done. I wish so often I had that same loving nature.

 I am a big proponent of the idea that when we go through something, it is never for ourselves. We learn these lessons to pass on to someone else who will need the words we didn’t hear, the prayers that weren’t prayed for us, a sincere understanding that no one could offer us.

Going through trials is God’s way of preparing us for ministry. When we come out on the other side, we not only have a fresh reason to praise Him, we come out with a new piece of wisdom. My hope is that someday, my words will help someone not have to struggle through things the way I do (a matter of my own stubbornness). I am glad to serve a God who doesn’t meet you on the other side; He takes you by the hand and walks with you.

Hopefully next time I am facing a trial, I will remember that while the bridge seems unstable, I should be focusing on the beauty that surrounds it. Also, as my dad reminded me, even if the bridge falls, the water beneath is not that deep. (Thanks, Dad!)

Belt of Truth

I’ve been going through some stuff. Have you ever just gone through some stuff?? You don’t quite know how to handle it, but you don’t want to talk about it. And when you keep it bottled up, doesn’t it seem like the enemy just magnifies it? I’ve been wallowing in my own despair for about a month now. So many things are going on in my personal life, and I have done little to push through. It’s really a ridiculous situation for someone who’s been in church practically her whole life. And when things do not seem to be going my way, I become like one of the children of Israel in the desert and WHINE about everything. It has a trickle down effect as one small thing can set off an avalanche of emotions.

 I realized today that this happens when I allow myself to be cooped up in the house all day long and rarely see the light of day. I decided it was high time to go and just sit outside and meditate on the Word.  As I was relaxing and meditating, I was going through some of my old church notes. I find this is one of the many ways the Lord speaks to me; because although they may not have been relevant at the time, I always seem to find the perfect sermon (complete with plenty of scripture) to clear the brain fog. I began to read through some notes I had taken on spiritual warfare when I realized this state of depression is a ploy of the enemy to keep me distracted from the things The God of the Universe has for me. What particularly stood out were the notes on the armor of God (Ephesians 6).

We are in a battle for our soul. Ever day we face test, large or small, that determine our capacity to retain exactly what it is the Word of God is telling us. When Paul was writing this portion of the New Testament, he was in Rome. Using his current surroundings, Paul ended his letter to the church at Ephesus with an illustration of what our spiritual armor should look like. Picture in your mind the strong, statuesque Roman soldier. Not necessarily towering over his enemies, a Roman soldier would use keen knowledge and brute force to strategically overtake his enemy in battle.

Everyday, they would push their body to new levels of endurance, making them fully prepared for everything the enemy might throw at them. But central to the success of a Roman soldier in battle was his gear. His physique was no match for the enemy’s weapons if there was no way to protect his vital organs. Paul recognized this and gave an incredible illustration of why Christians should put on our battle gear everyday, making sure each piece of spiritual armor is not only in tact, but in excellent condition. Paul begins with the loin belt (the belt of Truth) because this was the piece of equipment that held the other pieces of armor together. We know that the belt of Truth, the Word of God, is absolutely central to every decision we make. The Roman soldiers garb was layer strategically. Every piece, however, was contingent on the loin belt to ensure the armor would fit properly.  Otherwise, in the midst of the battle, a soldier would become distracted with an ill-fitting suite and give the enemy plenty of opportunity to take him down. (Can’t you just imagine a powerful Roman soldier on the battle field adjusting his “skirt”, trying to keep it pulled up?)

As Christians, we have to make sure that every thing we do is centered on our instruction from the Word of God! There is absolutely no use in being a Christian if we deny the existence of our purpose. And our purpose is found in the belt of Truth! When we are going though issues that keep us defeated, we need to remind ourselves that we have the victory. The war has already been won for us, we just have to take every battle captive. It is not easy to encourage ourselves in the Lord sometimes. I am personally struggling because I have always been surrounded by a church family (and amazing godly friends) that constantly encourage me, and can bring me back to reality when needed. Right now, I find myself in a wilderness experience because we have not been at our new church long enough to make friends, and Jer’s work schedule is so crazy we are not able to go on Wednesday nights (when amazing friendships are forged). So now, I am having to put into practice everything I have learned about encouraging myself in the Lord, and it’s tough. I try to surround myself with godly teachings and do daily personal Word study. But, buddy, it’s hard when we are beings created for fellowship!! However distressed I am, I know that this is a temporary situation. I know that by going to the Lord in prayer, and by reading my Word, I am being encouraged to overcome anything the enemy may try to throw at me. I just have to change my perspective mentally, and my physical and emotional problems will change as well. We must line our thoughts and confessions with the truth in the Word of God!

My prayer is that this will bless someone today. Perhaps, if you are struggling, you can be reminded that the first place we must look for peace is to the Lord and His Word! “The Lord bless and keep you; The Lord make His face to shine upon you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance upon you, And give you peace.” (The Aaronic (priestly) blessing from Numbers 6:24)

Standing with you in faith,

Trina

Prayer:

Gracious Father,
Thank You for always being a source of strength and help when the battle becomes exhausting. God, thank You for allowing me to have Your Word as an outline for my purpose in life. God, thank You that even in wilderness experiences I am never alone!

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Scripture References:

Ephesians 6:14 (NIV)
Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place,

Acts 12:24 (NIV)
But the word of God continued to spread and flourish.

Proverbs 30:5 (NIV)
"Every word of God is flawless; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him. He replied, "Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it."

Hebrews 13:7 (NIV)
Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.

Acts 4:31 (NIV)
After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly.

2 Corinthians 2:17 (NIV)
Unlike so many, we do not peddle the word of God for profit. On the contrary, in Christ we speak before God with sincerity, as those sent from God.

Hebrews 4:12 (NIV)
For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.

LoveLIFE (LoveIsForEver):

I do not utilize my husband enough when it comes to needing prayer. God gives us a spouse so we may have someone one to help spur us on when we are battle weary. I am thankful for a husband that serves the Lord, and I have purposed in my heart to be vulnerable more often with him; especially when it comes to letting someone pray for me. If you have a godly spouse, first- thank God for them. And second, let your guard down and let them pray for you. If you do not have a spouse the serves the Lord, I would encourage you to pick up the book, The Power of A Praying Wife  by Stormie O’Martian. It is a powerful book that will change your whole perspective on praying for your husband. (She has a whole series of “Power of Praying” books, and they are all really great!)

Bring It All

Jesus told us to store up our treasures in heaven. (Matthew 6:20). He said these were the only treasures that would last. Things like salvation, gentleness and kindness, reaching out to others, and truly being an example of Christ through love and service are just some of the ways we can store up heavenly treasures. It’s not just the “stuff” treasures represent, it’s the lives we lead to a transforming knowledge of Jesus that truly represent those priceless gifts that Jesus has waiting for us.

Along with that, Jesus said that where we keep our treasure is where we keep our heart. (Matthew 6:21)  Take a look at your checkbook. If it’s anything like mine, it is full of online bill payments and grocery store charges. But the first thing I do each pay period is tithe. Tithing is a commandment in the Word of God. Tithe translates to “tenth,” so we are to give the first tenth of everything God blesses us with back-and according to the Word, it belongs to the LOCAL CHURCH (not a televangelist). [Side note: If you give to a ministry other then your local church or if you give extra, that is considered an offering.] God says, “Not only will I let you keep the 90% left over, I will bless it for you. All you have to do is return the first 10%.” In Malachi, He even goes on to say that we can test Him in the tithe. If you realize that the money you have is not yours, but merely a loan from God, you can begin to understand the principle of the tithe. Sometimes, it is hard to write a tithe check. AHH-TRUST me, I know. I am tempted to think of all the extra stuff I could buy or the bills I could get caught up on if I just had that extra ten percent  But I have tested the Lord, and He has made good on that promise more times than I can count. I have been somewhat hesitant to share this story, since it is so fresh, but I really feel like the Lord will encourage somebody if I share, so here goes:

On the fourth of July, we were broke. Jer received a short check that pay period and were it not for some money he found (God revealed) in a parking lot, we would not have been able to pay our bills. But we paid our tithe FIRST! After Jer got up that morning, he sold some items we didn’t need so he could have some money for gas that next week. We heard that a frozen yogurt chain was offering a discount on scoops, so we thought we would take a few dollars and treat ourselves to some fro-yo. Before we could make it to the store, one of his tires blew. It was done for; no amount of air would fill this tire. We pulled into a parking lot and decided we would walk home. In the parking lot, just feet away from where we parked, Jeremy found a tire that would fit his car. The rim was dented which was fine because he had just gotten a new rim. But the tire was perfect. We threw the tire in the car, locked it up, and started walking. The next day, Jer found a shop that mounted the tire FOR FREE! We had no extra money for a tire, so God gave us one. We didn’t have money to get it mounted, so He sent someone to do it for free. We didn’t have money to pay our bills, so He gave us extra. Three miracles in one paycheck; I’d say you can trust the Lord!!!

Too many people have hard hearts when it comes to tithing. I know people who church hop because they’re looking for a church that doesn’t talk about money. Jesus had a great deal to say about our finances, more than half of His parables were on money. SO I suspect that money is an important tool in the kingdom. Some people think that their 10% will not matter, but I offer you this: it may not seem like much to you, BUT GOD can stretch it. He can make it go further and last longer than you can!!

This is not exactly what I was going to write about today, but God took me in this direction for a reason. I hope it blesses someone and offers clarity and insight to those of you who may be skeptical of the tithe. I can honestly tell you that my husband and I could not survive if it were not for the principle of the tithe.

Love and shalom to you all!

Prayer:

Gracious Lord,

Thank You for being Jehovah Jirah, our Provider. Lord, please give me wisdom and supernatural knowledge when it comes to my finances. I thank You that Your Word tells me that I can both test You and trust You with my tithe! You are an amazing God and I can always stand on Your promises.

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Scripture References:

2 Chronicles 31:6 (NKJV)            

 And the children of Israel and Judah, who dwelt in the cities of Judah, brought the tithe of oxen and sheep; also the tithe of holy things which were consecrated to the Lord their God they laid in heaps.

Deuteronomy 14:22 (NKJV)            

You shall truly tithe all the increase of your grain that the field produces year by year.

Nehemiah 13:12 (NKJV)            

Then all Judah brought the tithe of the grain and the new wine and the oil to the storehouse.

Genesis 14:20 (NKJV)            

And blessed be God Most High, Who has delivered your enemies into your hand. And he gave him a tithe of all.

Malachi 3:8 (NKJV)            

Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed Me! But you say, In what way have we robbed You? In tithes and offerings.

Nehemiah 10:37 (NKJV)           

  …to bring the firstfruits of our dough, our offerings, the fruit from all kinds of trees, the new wine and oil, to the priests, to the storerooms of the house of our God; and to bring the tithes of our land to the Levites, for the Levites should receive the tithes in all our farming communities.

Proverbs 3:9 (NKJV)            

 Honor the Lord with your possessions, And with the firstfruits of all your increase;

Luke 6:38 (NKJV)            

 Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.

Proverbs 11:24 (NKJV)           

  There is one who scatters, yet increases more; And there is one who withholds more than is right, But it leads to poverty.

Malachi 3:10 (NKJV)          

   Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, That there may be food in My house, And try Me now in this, Says the Lord of hosts, If I will not open for you the windows of heaven And pour out for you such blessing That there will not be room enough to receive it.

Malachi 3:11 (NKJV) 
        

    And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, So that he will not destroy the fruit of your ground, Nor shall the vine fail to bear fruit for you in the field, Says the Lord of hosts;

Love LIFE (LoveIsForEver):

I used to go to church with an older couple that had been married for decades. They always seemed like perpetual teenagers, forever in love. When she would walk into the room, his eyes would light up. She had the same starry-eyes for him. I have to honestly admit that my marriage is not perfect, so I seek after wisdom from older couples when I have questions or concerns. One day I asked “Mrs. Joy” for the secret to their deeply devoted love. Her response was simple, but something I feel like my generation has somehow missed: “We love and respect each other, and we never stop being intimate with each other.” I love that simple principles outlined in the Word are always the answer for such question. I know I’ve said it before, but our marriages are the representation of Christ love for the church.   

Renewed Faith

The Lord has been dealing with me about my faith lately. I grew up in a church that really emphasized the power of faith. I will never forget the miracles I have heard about, witnessed, and experienced personally. However, the older I have grown, the more I have let the world get in the way of my faith. I believe in my heart for healing, restoration and grace, but do not confess these things with my mouth. I have let my situations dictate my faith. Yesterday, I was watching a really interesting teaching on faith, and something the minister said struck the core of my soul.

His entire message was powerful. I took extreme care to listen and capture mental notes. But at one point, He read a scripture that I have heard a thousand times out of a different translation. In the Amplified version of the Bible, Hebrews 11:1 reads:

                                   

“Now faith is the assurance (the confirmation, [a] the title deed) of

                        the things [we] hope for, being the proof of things [we] do not see        

                        and the conviction of their reality [faith perceiving as real fact

                        what is not revealed to the senses].”

When you own a car- all the payments have been made- you receive a title to that car. It’s yours. As long as you want to own it, that car will not be taken away from you. When Jesus died on the cross, we received a title to the things we need in faith. Catch that- we have a title deed through our faith. I have known for years that we have to name those things that are not as thought they exist already; that’s what the Word of God teaches. But when I heard this I really grabbed a hold of the awesomeness behind it. The price has already been paid!! We have a title to the things we need when we stand on them in faith. They may not always come to us in our timing, but when we are faithful to believe and trust, we will receive those things we ask for in faith.

A few years ago, warts covered Jeremy hands. There were probably 50 or more on either hand. We tried everything in the natural to get rid of them. It just seemed to make them worse. They were mostly unsightly and uncomfortable in his construction job, but after a few months, they began to cause him a lot of pain. When winter came, it was especially difficult because his hands cracked and bleed. One summer Sunday, the Lord really began to move in our worship service. It was one of the few times our church had been in one mind and one accord. The outpouring of the Holy Spirit was undeniable. I was worshiping the Lord when Jeremy tapped me on the shoulder. He was crying and, at first, I assumed he was being moved by the spirit of what was taking place. He showed me his hands and I thought to myself, “Ok, he pulled me out of my worship to show me his hands.” I must have looked confused because he said, “The warts…. They’re gone.” I hadn’t noticed because his hands looked so normal. They had literally disappeared before his eyes.

God is good. I want to challenge you as I have been challenged to step out in faith. Get some sticky notes and find all the scripture you can about faith and post them all over your walls. Make confessions daily and really believe for things you are praying about. And on a last note, you do not have to beg God for anything. The Scriptures tell us to come BOLDLY to the throne room of God. A coward begs, a victor confidently believes that what the Lord says to them will be granted.

Love to you all!

Prayer:

Dear Lord,

Thank You for all of Your many blessings. Help me Lord to receive them in faith. Lord, help me to remember that the promises You make to me can never be broken- they are “yes” and “amen”. I stand on Your Word today and believe that when You tell me I can ask for things in Your Name and be given them, I believe You.

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Scripture References:

Hebrews 11:1 (AMP)
 
NOW FAITH is the assurance (the confirmation, the title deed) of the things [we] hope for, being the proof of things [we] do not see and the conviction of their reality [faith perceiving as real fact what is not revealed to the senses].

Mark 11:22 (NIV)

"Have faith in God," Jesus answered.

Romans 4:17 (NIV)

As it is written: "I have made you a father of many nations." He is our father in the sight of God, in whom he believed—the God who gives life to the dead and calls into being things that were not.

Romans 8:28 (NIV)

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

1 Peter 4:11 (NIV)

If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.

Hebrews 4:16 (NIV)
Let us then approach God's throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

Love LIFE (LoveIsForEver):

We all have a crisis if faith at one time or another. If you are single, really seek out a special someone who can be a rock for you in a time you need it the most. If you are married, thank God for a godly spouse who can be the back bone of your family. (This might be an instance of declaring it in faith.) And in the end, remember that you really can rely on God to supply all your needs- and your wants.

Correction

As I mentioned Tuesday, I have been doing some research on a ministry that I formerly supported whole-heartedly. The more information I find, the more I am sure of the way the Holy Spirit is leading me in regards to that ministry. In the midst of all this research, I stumbled across a blog that had the same views about this particular ministry. As I read the information, I found myself agreeing with this person on most of their writings. However, I pulled up some of the blogs they gave their support to in terms of like-mindedness. I have to say upon further inspection, I was shocked and appalled. I am an advocate for free speech, so this was not just a case of disagreement. These “Christian” blogs were tearing other ministries to shreds with hurtful words and heretical allegations. I believe in the importance of correction. I believe that if a ministry is doing something incredulous, they should be held accountable. But I do not see anywhere in the Word that we are to tear ministries to shreds with vague allegations and slander.  Again, although I am a propionate to free speech, I have to agree with Paul that while everything is permissible, not everything is profitable.

Correction is a gift from Adonai. Not to be confused with guilt or condemnation, correction bridges a gap in our relationship with our Redeemer. The Word is clear that we, as Christians, have no condemnation when we are in Christ. But correction places us on the narrow path that leads to life. I believe that when we set our eyes on the kingdom, we no longer fear correction. We have been taught in western culture that correction is judgment. I think that is highly erroneous. The Bible says that our Creator disciplines those whom He loves. Even we, as mere mortals, understand this because we discipline those whom we love. Sometimes, I am surprised when my sister tells me that my niece and nephew want to stay at my house. They are always always welcome at Nene’s (my) house, but I do make them behave. Working from home does not afford me they same type of check I had when I worked outside the home, so sometimes they are disappointed when I have to tell them “no” to certain activities we used to treasure. And sometimes, as much as I hate being the bad guy, I have to correct their disobedience. Lately, if look at my nephew or niece and say, “You are being very disrespectful right now,” they will stop their noncompliant behaviors.

I always make it a point to tell them that I love them, and that I want other people to love being around them too. They are starting to understand that when I correct them, it’s not to be mean; rather, I am doing it so others will respect them. I think it’s the same way with our Creator. I think He disciplines (corrects) those whom He loves so we can be a blessing to those around us. As much as we hate to think about it, there is always someone watching us. Our behavior will effect the next generations. When we humble ourselves, and come to our Savior with a contrite heart, we open the door for wisdom and knowledge. That, in turn, earns us respect. When we can have an honest conversation with someone and they can see from our actions that we are genuine, it opens a dialogue that is the essence of ministry.

Correction can hurt. I can’t think of anyone from the deep south that was not, at one time or another, made to “pick” their own “switch”. But, I think we can all agree that the correction we gained from our parents and grandparents (and aunts) made us become better people. It kept us from engaging in some behaviors that were not fruitful for us. In the (exact) same way, when our Heavenly Father disciplines us, it is not to be cruel or incite fear. (I think anyone who knows the Father understands that He is a gentleman.) He disciplines those whom He loves so we can have credit with unbelievers; He disciplines us so we will be found without fault on judgment day; He disciplines us so we will be respected when we go to our brothers and sisters and say, “Hey, what’s going on? Why are you doing this?” Gentle correction is love. As Christians, we will face correction because we are imperfect- every one of us. Next time you want to run from the correction of the Father, remind yourself how you might discipline your own children and how you would want them to react. Correction makes us better people and better children of the Most High.

Prayer:

Holy Father,

Thank You for Your correction. Thank You that You are causing me to be better- moving me from glory to glory- when you discipline me. Thank You Father that Your ways are not our ways. And thank You that we can run to You with our hurts, fears, frustrations and apologies, and You will always be there to help pick up the pieces.

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Scripture References:

Proverbs 15:10 (NKJV)

Harsh discipline is for him who forsakes the way, And he who hates correction will die.

1 Corinthians 9:27 (NKJV)

But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.

Proverbs 6:23 (NKJV)

For the commandment is a lamp, And the law a light; Reproofs of instruction are the way of life,

Proverbs 13:24 (NKJV)

He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.

Hebrews 12:11 (NKJV)

Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

Hebrews 13:17 (NKJV)

Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you.

Proverbs 19:18 (NKJV)

Chasten your son while there is hope, And do not set your heart on his destruction.

1 Corinthians 5:13 (NKJV)

But those who are outside God judges. Therefore put away from yourselves the evil person.

1 Corinthians 14:40 (NKJV)

Let all things be done decently and in order.

1 Timothy 5:20 (NKJV)

Those who are sinning rebuke in the presence of all, that the rest also may fear.

Proverbs 10:17 (NKJV)

He who keeps instruction is in the way of life, But he who refuses correction goes astray.

Proverbs 25:28 (NKJV)

Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls.

Proverbs 22:15 (NKJV)

Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him.

Hebrews 12:9 (NKJV)

Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live?

Titus 1:13 (NKJV)

This testimony is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith,

Proverbs 12:1 (NKJV)

Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he who hates correction is stupid.

Proverbs 29:17 (NKJV)

Correct your son, and he will give you rest; Yes, he will give delight to your soul.

Proverbs 29:15 (NKJV)

The rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.

2 Timothy 4:2 (NKJV)

Preach the word! Be ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching.

Proverbs 13:1 (NKJV)

A wise son heeds his fathers instruction, But a scoffer does not listen to rebuke.

Proverbs 22:6 (NKJV)

Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.

Ephesians 6:4 (NKJV)

And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.

2 Corinthians 12:9 (NKJV)

And He said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness. Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

Psalm 30:5 (NIV)

For his anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.

Love LIFE (LoveIsForEver):

Thinking of a particular family member, when we lose someone we love OR when we feel unloved in our own marriage, we can sometimes allow loneliness to creep in. Because I can relate, feeling lonely is one of the most desperate experiences a person can go through. When we are so used to sharing our lives with people we love, we can sometimes forget that we are to value our Father in heaven more than any other love relationship- even over our own life. It is not easy to go from loneliness to joy. From personal experience, I felt sometimes like I had to drag my own body on days when the pain of solitude was overwhelming. But we do serve a God who loves us. The Bible says that His strength is made perfect in our weakness. So I just want to encourage you, if you are struggling with feelings of seclusion, take great joy in knowing that you are loved. The One who divinely knit you together sees your needs and is willing to meet you where you are. Keep in memory the scripture that says though our sorrow may last through the night (or a thousand nights), our JOY comes in the morning!

Challenge Accepted

I love a good challenge. I would not call myself a procrastinator, but I will say that I do my best work under pressure. I can make plans and get things together, but the challenge is where I am really going to shine. Once, my husband’s company was having a “clean up” day. I love to clean, so I offer to help; of course, I was welcomed with arms wide open. I somehow received the task that no one else wanted, cleaning plastic high chairs. All I was equipped with was a scrubby pad, some gritty powdered cleaner, and water. I made it work. It took about an hour per chair. There was grime deeply imbedded into these chairs and I scrubbed every crevice I could possible reach. When I was finished, I helped clean in some other areas, but my husband’s boss was most impressed with the high chairs. She let it be known that she had not seen those chairs that clean since they first arrived. I could have cleaned anywhere or anything, but I was assigned the job no one else wanted to do. It was perfect for me because I do my best work when I am challenged.

A challenge is just a test. When you challenge someone or something, it is to see if they have what it takes to stand by what they say, preach, teach or believe. I still remember the platform for some of the test I took in high school because they were not a standard test; they had a different desired outcome.  Instead of multiple choices, we had to write poetry. Instead of matching, we had to fill in the names on a map- it was something different; it required more. We were being challenged to do our best, to see if we could prove what we were learning instead of just acknowledging that we had. As Christians, we are required to test and challenge daily.  Only, we have a different classroom.

Recently, I became aware that one of my favorite “worship experiences” was likened to a cult. I was outraged at first, but because I like a challenge I dug in full force on both sides of the argument. I studied for hours, comparing the facts, and asked my husband to research and pray with me because this effected areas of our worship time with the L-rd. I wanted to be absolutely sure, whatever the out come would be, that I was making the best decisions for my spiritual walk.

As mentioned earlier, we are required to test daily, especially those things concerning the Spirit. We need to make absolute certain that the things we digest are 100% from the

 L-rd; that we are not just absent mindedly following something because it seems “spiritual” or it “feels” like G-d. All throughout the Word of G-d, we are challenged to investigate for ourselves what possibly lies behind a spirit. Is it good, lovely and true? Does it edify the church or does it cause confusion? (God is NOT the author of confusion!) Is there scripture to coincide with certain behaviors? And most importantly, does it exude love for the Father? Because without love, the Bible teaches that we are only a clanging gong (an obnoxious noise).

Doesn’t the Word tell us to study to show ourselves approved? Why would we study if there wasn’t going to be a test? I know we liken test to work. And sometimes, we are afraid that if we test what we believe, we won’t get the outcome we desire. But this is our walk with G-d we are talking about. Is there anything more important than making sure we are aligned with what G-d has in store for us? I challenge you that if something seems off, don’t just accept it blindly: research, study and pray about it. Look at both sides of the argument and ask the Holy Spirit to guide you to the truth.

Let me end by saying I am not offering that we should test G-d. He so graciously gives us the opportunity to do so when we tithe, obey, bless others, come to salvation, choose His way opposed to the worlds, sacrifice, and love; though, He does not have to. What I am saying is that we should not accept things blindly when it comes to something in which man is involved. I am thankful that the Holy Spirit gave me wisdom to research a ministry I had blindly accepted as truth for years simply because I loved the emotional appeal that came along side. The Word is clear that in the last days, there will be wolves in sheep’s clothing, meaning there are spiritual strongholds that will come to distract us from true worship; but they will look so “spiritual” no one will question them. G-d does see the heart of man, and those leading His people astray will be met with do justice. But He gives us reasoning and discernment for a reason, and we will suffer the consequences as well for not assessing those things that cause us to say, “This doesn’t seem right.” I have to admit that I was confused by the challenge of researching something that seemed to me to be so evidently G-d centered.  But what I found is we have to seek the heart (the true intention) that is really behind things we consider the “norm” spiritually. All that glitters is not gold.

Prayer:

Father,

I know that I need You on a daily basis to help me past the test You set before me. Help me G-d to show myself approved to You. Help me make the best decisions in every area of my life, especially in those areas that concern worshiping You. I thank You that Your Word tells us that all we have to do is ask for wisdom, and You grant it to us. L-rd may knowledge and wisdom follow me all the days of my life.

In Jesus name, Amen.

Scripture References:

1 Thessalonians 5:21 (NKJV)

Test all things; hold fast what is good.

John 6:6 (NKJV)

But this He said to test him, for He Himself knew what He would do.

Matthew 22:18 (NKJV)

But Jesus perceived their wickedness, and said, Why do you test Me, you hypocrites?

Job 12:11 (NKJV)

Does not the ear test words And the mouth taste its food?

1 John 4:1 (NKJV)

Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world.

Acts 15:10 (NKJV)

Now therefore, why do you test God by putting a yoke on the neck of the disciples which neither our fathers nor we were able to bear?

Jeremiah 17:10 (NKJV)

I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind, Even to give every man according to his ways, According to the fruit of his doings.

2 Corinthians 13:5 (NKJV)

Examine yourselves as to whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Do you not know yourselves,that Jesus Christ is in you unless indeed you are disqualified.

Jeremiah 20:12 (NKJV)

But, O Lord of hosts, You who test the righteous, And see the mind and heart, Let me see Your vengeance on them; For I have pleaded my cause before You

Lamentations 3:40 (AMP)

Let us test and examine our ways, and let us return to the Lord!

Psalm 26:2 (AMP)

Examine me, O Lord, and prove me; test my heart and my mind.

1 Thessalonians 5:21 (AMP)

But test and prove all things [until you can recognize] what is good; [to that] hold fast.

Luke 4:12 (AMP)

And Jesus replied to him, [The Scripture] says, You shall not tempt (try, test exceedingly) the Lord your God.

2 Timothy 2:15 (NIV)

Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.

Psalm 119:11 (NIV)

I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.

1 Chronicles 29:17 (NIV)

I know, my God, that you test the heart and are pleased with integrity. All these things I have given willingly and with honest intent. And now I have seen with joy how willingly your people who are here have given to you.

1 Samuel 16:7 (NIV)

But the lord said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."

2 Corinthians 4:16 (NIV)

Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.

Acts 20:29 (NIV)

I know that after I leave, savage wolves will come in among you and will not spare the flock.

Matthew 7:15 (NIV)

"Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves.”

Matthew 10:16 (NIV)

"I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.”

Love LIFE (LoveIsForEver):

I was studying recently and found out that the word faith in the Scripture was mis-translated. It should translate to trust. Trust is such a delicate issue. When trust is misplaced, it can have grave consequences. Likewise, when trust is not the cornerstone of a relationship, it can become unnecessarily complicated and have disastrous effects. Let your spouse know that you count them trustworthy and that you, as well, are trustworthy. It may sound silly, but from personal experience, trust in a relationship can take years to rebuild. Make it a point to be a trustworthy person. Keep your word, honor your commitments, and let your spouse know that you appreciate your being able to trust them.

Battle

When I was in high school, up until the time I was married, I kept a journal for my husband. Sometimes, I like to go back and re-read some of the things I wrote. As I read them, I remember the exact emotion I felt as I wrote each entry. Basically, they include honest thoughts, God inspired epiphanies, and deep wonderings about who my forever love would be; and the things that I most wanted him to know about me at that particular time. I have entries and poetry about the longing I had for the other half I knew God created for me. But then, there is something deeper. There are some entries I re-read that ignite the same Holy passion inside of me as when I first wrote them. These are the accounts I poured over on those nights I couldn’t sleep because the Holy Spirit had awoken me to pray. These were not just your standard prayers that caused me to casually drift back to sleep. These were the nights I was up praying and rebuking. These were the nights when I felt as if I were in the midst of a battle. When I had those nights that left me so desperate for sleep but so full of adrenaline from praying and rebuking and quoting scripture, I felt like I had really made a difference in my future.

When Jer and I finally did start courting, I was careful about the things I would reveal to him. Long ago, a dear friend warned me about the importance of prudence. But when I did slowly begin to reveal some of the things I prayed about on those prayer-filled nights, they very often correlated with a relevant issue going on 500 miles away in Alabama. I thank God for those nights. I was sitting here thinking about these things a little while ago. I haven’t picked up those journals for months now, because I have them in boxes stored away from the move. But God really laid on my heart the term “battle lines.” It’s safe to assume that we all know the violence and blatant irreverence going on around us. In a country where selfishness is ever increasing, it is no longer popular to do what’s right; there is no honor in standing up for what you believe. But God is reminding me that there is a battle between good and evil. I’m not oblivious to the fact that this has been going on for thousands of years. Only, now, there is a electricity in the air much like that I used to feel on those nights I prayed so desperately for someone I did not know.

There is a battle, like it or not; and in a battle, you have to pick a side. There is no middle ground. This fact really stirred in my spirit yesterday when I read something one of my friends had written. It was eloquent and beautiful prose. It didn’t offend anyone. It sounded beautiful and full of love. But it was middle ground. As I wrote in my last blog, I firmly believe that we are called to love everyone- despite race, creed, sexual orientation, religious beliefs (or lack there of), or gender. We are called to love. But something unexplainable deteriorates our religion when we feel unjustified to our opinion. On an completely unrelated site, I read a comment from a woman who considered herself a Christian that actually stated she hate it when Christians try to use the Bible to pull off their biased point. If you’re a Christian, all of your “biased points” should come directly from the Word of God. We are not only in a battle over our convictions from unbelievers, our own brothers and sisters are making those who strive to live life according to scripture look foolish.

Once again, I am all about loving our neighbor, especially if they don’t love us, in order to point the way to Christ. Christ is about love and acceptance. But He does NOT tolerate sin. We are called as children of God to point our brothers and sisters in the right direction. True- God is the ultimate judge. But, He puts people- friends, neighbors, fellow church goers- in our path to help us along. Iron sharpens iron. Every person Jesus encountered that He showed compassion to He told to go and sin no more. I’ve even heard the comment: I am not Jesus,  I am not perfect, therefore I should not judge. I’m not judging anyone for anything. I have made mistakes in my past. I know better than anyone on earth that I am not perfect. But, to me, not being  that accountably for your friends is like allowing them to pull a boiling pot of water on them because you were afraid of saying something might offend them. Personally, I need accountability. I need people in my life to tell me when I am getting off track. I need them to talk to me; I need them to grab a corner of my rug and drag me to Jesus sometimes. (Luke 5:17-32) And I think I would be a horrible person for not holding my friends accountable for their actions, especially my fellow Christians.

There is forgiveness in the Father. I am grateful because I need it every day. I don’t know a single human being on this earth that was ever perfect, except Christ Himself. But we all are called to be in one mind and one accord. That means there are basic principles of scripture that we are all called to agree on. Jesus got angry and rebuked the people in the temple for cheating the townspeople that had come to sacrifice to the Lord. Do you think He was more concerned about hurting their feelings than making it known that they were doing things that displeased the Lord? No. He was simply letting them know, “Hey, what you’re doing is not cool.” (my interpretation) The mistake we have fallen into is not seeing accountability as wise counsel. If someone says something to you about what you’re doing and you don’t like it, we call it being judgmental. But part of loving people is gently correcting them. Hating people and calling them ugly names and shouting all kinds of horrible things at them is NOT Christ-like, and people who do that should be reprimanded as well. But, when we already have so much stacked against us, the last thing we need to do is tear apart our fellow believes. These are the people who fight the battle with you. These are the family that offer refreshment when you’re tired of running the race. And these people are called to gently nudge you back on track when you start running off road. The battle is raging, and we need each other now more than ever.

Our battle is not against people. Our battle is against the schemes of the devil; the evil influences that are slowly numbing our culture to vague tolerance. Our enemy is not the people that disagree with us; it is the infiltration of selfishness. The Word is clear that our battle is not against flesh and blood- it’s against the unseen wicked powers that try to make us war with our brothers and sister. In order to win this battle, we need a united front. And not just in America, but in every country across the world where there is true injustice not just the things we call injustice in America-like disagreeing on social issues. We are in a war for souls! Let us focus on outreach for the lost and being a light to the world, two of the issues for which Jesus came to earth.

Prayer:

Dear Lord Jesus,

Help me to be a good influence on people. When I am around them, help them to be better when they leave me because I have oozed Your love and mercy on them. God, I know we are in a spiritual battle. Lord, help us not to fight one another, but to fight together for people for Your kingdom and glory. I know Lord that I am not perfect. Help me to walk in Your excellence every day, and help me Lord to point the way to You.

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Scripture References:

Psalm 55:18 (NKJV)

He has redeemed my soul in peace from the battle that was against me, For there were many against me.

2 Chronicles 13:14 (NKJV)

And when Judah looked around, to their surprise the battle line was at both front and rear; and they cried out to the Lord, and the priests sounded the trumpets.

Deuteronomy 20:3 (NKJV)

And he shall say to them, Hear, O Israel: Today you are on the verge of battle with your enemies. Do not let your heart faint, do not be afraid, and do not tremble or be terrified because of them;

1 Corinthians 14:8 (NKJV)

For if the trumpet makes an uncertain sound, who will prepare for battle?

Jeremiah 46:3 (NKJV)

Order the buckler and shield, And draw near to battle!

2 Samuel 22:40 (NKJV)

For You have armed me with strength for the battle; You have subdued under me those who rose against me.

Deuteronomy 28:7 (NKJV)

The Lord will cause your enemies who rise against you to be defeated before your face; they shall come out against you one way and flee before you seven ways.

Ephesians 6:12 (NKJV)

For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.

Joel 3:9 (NKJV)

Proclaim this among the nations: Prepare for war! Wake up the mighty men, Let all the men of war draw near, Let them come up.

Proverbs 21:22 (NKJV)

A wise man scales the city of the mighty, And brings down the trusted stronghold.

Psalm 27:3 (NKJV)

Though an army may encamp against me, My heart shall not fear; Though war may rise against me, In this I will be confident.

Luke 14:31 (NKJV)

Or what king, going to make war against another king, does not sit down first and consider whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand?

Proverbs 24:6 (NKJV)

For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

Love LIFE (LoveIsForEver):

Remember that your spouse is your closest battle buddy. Make sure they know they can always come to you for warring prayer. Make it a habit to pray together and build a strong fortress for one another. The enemy is tricky and tries to sneak his way into our marriages in ways we can not see. Be on guard, pray daily for wisdom, and set clear boundaries in your marriage. I know a wonderful couple that agrees not to have opposite sex friends on a social networking site. It may sound extreme, but they are taking precautions to affair proof their marriage. Remember, marriage is a picture of the love Christ has for His bride, the church. Take extra care to guard your heart and mind with this most precious gift.

Song Reference:

Two songs, Jimmy Needham- Fence Riders and

Chris August- Battle.... Great songs with great lyrics!!

Offensive Call

When I first heard in Mr. Starke’s 7^th grade Bible class that we are called to be a peculiar people, it set a small spark inside of me. I admit that I have struggled with worrying about what others think of me (sometimes I still do), but I have always held in the back of my mind that I am supposed to be different. God is so creative, He gave us all a unique personality, quirky character traits, and our own personal sense of self, largely determined by those things that surround us in life. We are all different. Sometimes, I have confused my peculiarities that are God ordained with those I  picked up naturally from my environment.

For instance, I was not taught how to wash clothes until I was leaving for college. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to know, my mom was just very picky about how the clothes were washed. However, because of the timing, I too became very particular about how my clothes were washed; more so than my mom. All my towels have to be folded a certain way. They and my wash rags must all face the same direction. In college, it had gotten to the point that they were color coated, but I gave that up after I was married. There are some people in my life that this quirk absolutely drives mad. “It’s just a towel,” someone said. But to me, it is more than that. To me, having everything neatly laundered is having a spirit of excellence. I live by the motto that there is a place for everything. I work from home, so my primary objective is to keep the house smelling fresh and looking clean. I almost find an identity in my housework; it is a source of pride for me.

While you may not all have a border line obsession with keeping the house clean, you have those eccentricities that may "you" uniquely "you". No one else can have your you-ness. It’s really alright that we don’t follow a crowd or stereo-type! The fact is, not everyone is going to love you and your quirks. In the same way, we can expect resistance as Christians for having a “peculiar” standard of living. And if I may be so bold, that’s how you know you’re living your life according to the Word. I am in no way implying that we should purposefully become hated by acting like a crazy lunatic; but  people will be offended, if you live according to the Word, by your Christianity. I am grateful to live in a country that is considered a Christian nation. However, having morals is becoming increasing met with opposition. It is considered offensive if my opinion is different that what is becoming the new "norm". People who do not agree with me scream at me to be tolerant, while they have no tolerance for my opinion. It seems the Bible and the principles of Christianity are offensive.

While I make no apologies for my opinions, I can see that in a day and age where the motto is “Do what you want to do as long as it doesn’t offend me,” people can think taking a moral stance for or against anything is baffling. I mean, who bases their beliefs and opinions on anything other than selfish gain anymore? Doesn’t it make more sense to live your life the way you want to as opposed to following an ancient set of standards that have governed civilization for thousands of years? It may seem like a hard pill to swallow, but Christians will not be liked by everyone; we never have been. And when it becomes all too easy to be offended that some people refuse to like us based on our personal beliefs, consider the death of our Savior on the cross. Jesus was crucified, a sinners death, because He met the same opposition we face today. The Word of God tells us that in the end times, we will be pitted against each other. Brother against brother, sister against sister, daughter against mother- when we have a heart change such as Christ offers, and we agree to start standing on principles we may have never had before, we will offend some people.

With that said, we are called to love on people- despite how they treat us. How’s that for offensive? We need to lay down our pride, and realize Christianity is completely about servant-hood. It is our duty as Christians to show people the love of Christ. I will not mention specifics but there is a controversy going on in the fast food industry. I would challenge you that if you happen to see that particular controversy going on around you, to choose love. LOVE people, no matter what, with the same love Christ lavishes on you. Buy them a meal, refuse to be offended, show someone the love of God instead of just talking about it. Sit down and have a conversation with people instead of bashing and hating and destroying them. This is an awesome opportunity to show people the REAL love of God, something many may have never seen. Choose to be different. Choose to be set apart. Love simply for the fact that you are loved. Refuse to let offense turn you away from the opportunity to minister the Gospel to some body!

Prayer:

Gracious Father.

Thank You for lavishing Your love on me. Help me Father to love people the way You do. God, help me to see people through Your eyes. God, we all have worth. We all have a purpose and a destiny for our lives. We are all called to live with the same passion for people Christ did. God, cause us to conform to Your mold, even if it hurts our pride and selfishness. And Lord, give me the opportunity to minister to some body that is hurt and broken. Help me to have a gentle spirit and to not be offended when people don’t love me just because I follow You. Lord, You are God of all. You are still in control.

In Jesus Name, Amen.

Scripture References:

1^st Peter 2:9 (KJV)

But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:

Proverbs 19:11 (NIV)

A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense.

1 Corinthians 13 (NKJV)

1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part.10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

Galatians 5:11 (NKJV)

And I, brethren, if I still preach circumcision, why do I still suffer persecution? Then the offense of the cross has ceased.

Matthew 13:21 (NKJV)

yet he has no root in himself, but endures only for a while. For when tribulation or persecution arises because of the word, immediately he stumbles.

Matthew 16:23 (NKJV)

But He turned and said to Peter, Get behind Me, Satan! You are an offense to Me, for you are not mindful of the things of God, but the things of men.

Matthew 18:7 (NKJV)

Woe to the world because of offenses! For offenses must come, but woe to that man by whom the offense comes!

Acts 24:16 (NKJV)

This being so, I myself always strive to have a conscience without offense toward God and men.

Matthew 11:6 (NKJV)

And blessed is he who is not offended because of Me.

Matthew 15:11 (NKJV)

Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man; but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man.

Romans 14:13 (NKJV)

Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brothers way.

Matthew 24:10 (NKJV)

And then many will be offended, will betray one another, and will hate one another.

Romans 16:17 (NKJV)

Now I urge you, brethren, note those who cause divisions and offenses, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and avoid them.

Isaiah 8:14 (NKJV)

He will be as a sanctuary, But a stone of stumbling and a rock of offense To both the houses of Israel, As a trap and a snare to the inhabitants of Jerusalem.

Matthew 13:41 (NKJV)

The Son of Man will send out His angels, and they will gather out of His kingdom all things that offend, and those who practice lawlessness,

Proverbs 17:9 (AMP)

He who covers and forgives an offense seeks love, but he who repeats or harps on a matter separates even close friends.

Love LIFE (LoveIsForEver):

Instead of talking about your hunny today, I am going to challenge you. Remember that we are called to love and care for the broken and down-hearted. We are supposed to be a light in a dark world. Love is not easy. I don’t care what every love song in the world says. Love is tough and hard and sometimes dirty and unkempt. Please please please use the current controversies facing Christianity to LOVE people the way Jesus does. In scripture, He did not tolerate sin. But I’m pretty sure He never bombed anyone in His Father’s name, or shouted abusive, offensive words because some one was not living according to the moral standard. We are not called to be wimpy Christians. There is an obvious battle between good and evil going on. But for too many years, we have gone about things in a wrong and hurtful manner. Love doesn’t necessarily mean being a push over, but it isn’t selfish either. The definition of selfishness is not sharing the love of God.

Song Reference:

Courageous by Casting Crowns

Choose to be courageous by standing up for your beliefs and values. Don’t back down because it isn’t popular. I think Casting Crowns does an excellent job of getting the point across in this song.